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Children’s Meditation… Life Strategy.

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In a recent post I addressed, through the words of Deepak Choprah, the importance and power of meditation in enhancing the lives of our children.

Through meditation- sitting in stillness, engaging and developing the frontal portion of the brain, we encourage the best in who we can be:  compassion, empathy, love, and ultimately, happiness.

And isn’t that really what we want for our kids… particularly knowing that all the stuff (TV, video games, mp3′s and all the rest!) isn’t really doing it.  Ironically,  at least for my own kids, indulging in these pursuits as fun as they may think they are, tends to make them just plain unpleasant rather than happier!

For those of us who make a practice of sitting in meditation know what hard work it can seem.  And if it’s this hard for an adult how possibly can my high energy seven-year-old son manage?  Well, not on his own, that’s for sure…

“Thump… thump, thump!”

“What’s going on in there?”

“I’m meditating!”

Now, unless my child is gifted at telekinesis, somehow the school chairs came to be overturned with a cat cowering beneath for cover!

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Looking for Transformation in Meditation? Try a Stool!

meditate_002 Most of us, when we think of meditation, envision someone in quiet repose, silent tranquility, cross-legged on a flat, hard surface surrounded by shoji sceens or perhaps somewhere serene such as a dock or beach… or mountain top.

And wouldn’t that be lovely? To find such focus and quiet as to take comfort on a rock?!

Unfortunately, for many of us who attempt to establish a routine of regular meditation, outside of managing the raging, persistent monkey-mind, is the difficulty in finding a position, whether in a chair or on the floor, that allows for adequate comfort so as to better allow for a quieting of the mind.

Cramping knees, a growing nag from the lower back or aching ankle bones, compressed into the floor with their own weight, can easily derail our noble attempts at mental stillness, let alone actually seeing through that ellusive third eye.

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Wham Bam, Thank You… 10 Minutes to Glory!

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This summer has been a BUSY one, unfortunately at the expense of regular posts here at my beloved MommyOm.  But in my BUSY-ness, I’ve come across a life saver.

Regular practice was in grave danger earlier this summer of falling entirely off my radar, with all of the demands overwhelming between work, kids, husband… and well, just plain life.

I’ve written before of how my life is really just a series of ebbs and flows and this summer has truly reflected that.  And while I’ve been having a ball in the other areas of my life, practice, and fitness in general, really weren’t making it on the radar.

The absence wasn’t going unnoticed, however, and I decided, if I was going to keep things together and moving forward most effectively, at the very least, yoga (as the most enjoyable of my physical pursuits) had to given some priority.

But I knew, going from a month or so of doing nothing to all of a sudden committing an hour of my day to a practice around work, home, WAH husband and school at home kids I needed to start gently and set a goal I knew I could meet.

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So Angry I Could Spit… Where’s My Mat?!

angryThere are moments in this life… work-at-home husband, homeschooling the kids,  large dog, three new kittens, impending spousal unemployment (read: formerly work-at-home husband somewhere-on-the-golf course)… where the tension just seems to mount.

In mere moments, fear, frustration, and just the build up of stress and anxiety, plain and simple, yanks you by the sharp tongue, unwillingly of course, to that place where all bad energy resides and manifests in bad attitude, negativity and sometimes- ahem- just nasty, toxic interactions with those close to you (read: husband).

We’ve all heard the sage advice to ‘count to ten’, of course.  But my question, as the aspiring yogini I profess to be, is how can my practice enhance my ability to manage my frustration… retard my tendency to fly off the handle… or ease my propensity to suffocate on my anger in seething silence.

I meditate.  I practice.  But sometimes… sometimes… in the heat of the moment… is there something, yogically, I can draw on, to provide me with much needed support to get me through it without letting my anger undermine that which I am working so hard to control?

Or should there be?

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Chocolate Yoga… God Must Be A Woman!

Look, I’m not sure I’m buying this trend exactly… but anything that involves chocolate warrants an open mind!!

Savasana… Worth the Effort

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How often can you say that you let go, relax, completely?  Even if you are one who meditates, meditation is still an activity of engagement and distinct focus.

Savasana, as in any yoga posture, requires a certain focus. However unlike in meditation, rather than constantly directing attention to non-attention, shall we say, it is a practice of directing attention to complete and total relaxation.  An emptying from the scalp to the toes, from the spine to the internal organs.

Allowing oneself to sink, heavy into the earth, easing all tension from muscles and joints, allowing the eyeballs to roll back in the sockets, the tongue to lay heavy at it’s root and the stomach and neighbouring organs to lower into the wall of the spine… oh, while remaining awake of course.

This pose is about letting go entirely.  Proper relaxation is integral to healthy functioning of mind and body providing a clarity of thought, aiding in judgment and desicion making.   And in today’s hectic and increasingly stressful environment, at work and in the home, true relaxation is difficult to come by and to many, difficult to justify.

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Guest Post…. Diets In Review

I was recently asked to contribute over at the diet blog, Diets In Review.  I was honoured as there is heaps of information and it was a pleasure offering a little insight on the power of meditation, a subject near and dear to my heart.  I take on the power of meditation in battling stress as well as weight loss, so check it out!

Take a read, and while you’re over there be sure to peruse some of the other information on health and fitness.

The Positive Effects of Yoga on Body Image

For anyone who has experienced the power of the mind-body connection in yoga, the idea that yoga can have a positive influence over body image isn’ t really a surprise.  Truth be told in fact, for many, yoga is by its nature an effective facilitator for taking the focus off the body, and directing it towards the breath and inward.

OK.  So I may find myself, should I happen into an occasional class, perhaps a little self-conscious and wondering if the woman behind me is noticing my ever-creeping wedgie… but it takes but a brief re-direction, focusing the eyes forward and relaxed, gaze slightly downward, coordinating once again my movement with my breath… the breath… ahhhhhhh… the breath.  Later, wedgie.

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Looking for a Therapist? Try Yoga!

Living out in the sticks as I do, the choices are few and far between for yoga instruction, so retreats offer me the face to face guidance and feedback, not to mention valuable adjustments that are just not possible in my own living room, regardless who I’ve got playing on my TV screen.

However, as much as I love the retreats, inevitably the physical is inextricably combined with the mental, a fact I am never quite fully prepared for.   The yoga is often intense.  The body is challenged, stretched, nudged and eased into deeper representations of the postures.  But as the body opens, lengthens and surrenders… well, a whole lotta other stuff tends to emerge as well. Call me repressed… uptight, perhaps… even hung up.  As a reserved Canadian, I’ll accept each of them, because the fact is, while I wasn’t yet prepared or ready to see my growth on the mat translate to growth in other areas of my life, most of the other attendees were eager and ready to let it happen.

In amongst the fresh insights and perspectives, there were also tears, sobs and outright wails.  As one of only a few other repressed, uptight and hung up participants, I was without doubt, uncomfortable.  But, it was a real eye opener to observe how yoga could prove itself such an effective facilitator in profound awareness and change.

Whether it’s a retreat, a program geared to target not only the physical aspects of a practice but also the mental and spiritual, or simply a class, folks are finding healing on the mat in its many forms.  And, if you read on, you’ll find not surprisingly, that an entirely new brand of psychotherapy is finding legs because of it.

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A Meditation in Walking

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Contrary to popular belief, meditation doesn’t have to happen alone in a room, in full lotus, body silent and still.

No, in fact sometimes the most satisfying meditations happen on your feet, outdoors and covering ground.  Certainly, by now, we are all aware of the benefits of walking.  It has been the foundation to many a weight loss program as it’s inexpensive, outside of a good pair of shoes, it can be done anywhere and anyone can do it.  But can we truly achieve a meditative state by doing it?

Many of us already enjoy walking for some meditative benefits already.  Communing with nature, enjoying fresh air and clearing one’s head, all wonderful aspects to a low-intensity, heart pumping activity that can be done right outside your door.

Up until about two years ago, I walked as I run, not to the beat of my heart or to the sounds of the surrounding outdoors, but to the ear-splitting tunes filling my head.  I will likely always need music to help move and motivate me through a run, but it only took one walk without my earbuds to convert me to the centring, perspective gathering benefits of a brisk walk in peace and quiet rather than a brisk walk, thoughts and mind overwhelmed by the intense beat of drums and base.

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